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Brother Robert M. Carter, OSFS, 1952-2023

Brother Robert M. Carter, OSFS

Brother Robert M. Carter, OSFS, in his 35th year of religious life as a professed member of the Wilmington-Philadelphia Province of the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales, died on January 25, 2023.

Brother Bob was born in Philadelphia in 1952, the son of Norman Carter and Catherine Byrne Carter.  He was a proud parishioner and student of Incarnation Parish and Grade School in the Olney section of Philadelphia. Brother Bob entered the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales and professed first vows on August 13, 1988.  He made perpetual profession on May 6, 1995.

Over the years, Brother Bob faithfully served on the staffs of Brisson Seminary (Center Valley, PA), Paul VI High School (Fairfax, VA), Divine Word College (Washington, DC), the Newman Center at George Washington University (Washington, DC) and Buckley and Annecy Halls (Childs, MD). Brother Robert M. Carter, OSFS is preceded in death by his parents and his brother Edward Joseph Carter.  He is survived by brothers Norman Carter (Patty) and Kevin Carter (Kathleen) in addition to his nieces and nephews. 

The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, January 31, 2023, beginning at 11:30 AM at Our Lady of Light Chapel, 1120 Blue Ball Road, Childs, MD 21916. The Viewing will precede the Mass from 10:00 AM to 11:15 AM. Interment will take place at the Oblate Cemetery following the Mass.  Attendees should be fully vaccinated and boosted from COVID-19.  Social distancing and masks are required.

In memory of Brother Bob’s life and legacy, donations may be made to the Oblate Development Fund, P.O. Box 87, Childs, MD 21916-0087 or www.oblates.org/support-us

Spreading Our Wings and Taking Flight: Lives of Surrender and Love

As you have probably noticed lately, we have been making a big to-do about the release of an Apostolic Letter, Totum Amoris Est, issued by Pope Francis on the 400th anniversary of the death of Saint Francis de Sales.  At this point, you might be asking yourself: “Why are the Oblates so excited?  Why are they making such a big deal about this?”  I will provide you with an honest answer.  While Francis de Sales is a highly quoted, beloved and a brilliant, yet relatable Doctor of the Church, he doesn’t get the same kind of attention some of the other giants do, saints like Augustine, Thomas Aquinas and Francis of Assisi.  Honestly, we are okay with that.  Those are all great saints, ones that Francis de Sales himself happened to love but when our saint gets his moment, we seize it.  

We seize it because of our mission to share this spirituality and this moment provides us with a special opportunity to do just that.  We share that spirituality because it has changed the world, the Church and each of us Oblates.  It has made us much more keenly aware of the Love of God.  It has given us a simple, yet clear path to say “yes” to Him.  It’s something that we want to share because we want you to experience the presence of God in your life.  Francis de Sales is not the reason that God’s love is accessible.  He has shown us in “his method” how accessible God’s love has always been.  As Pope Francis wrote: “It was a method that renounced all harshness and respected completely the dignity and gifts of the devout soul.”

The devout soul has its own personal relationship with God, one that calls for our “yes.”  As the Holy Father reflects on the teaching of Francis de Sales, he writes: “It is up to us to take flight or to remain on the ground.  Even as he bestows his grace, God would not have us rise without our consent.”  So as Francis tells us in the Treatise on the Love of God, we have a choice to follow the lead of God’s inspirations or to reject them.  In the words of Pope Francis: “Each person is responsible for cooperating with his or her own fulfillment, with spreading his or her wings with confident trust before the gust of God’s wind.”   

To spread our wings with confident trust means that we know that God’s wind will lift us, that we will soar.  Sometimes we have a hard time trusting that this will happen.  We grow in that trust, we live in that trust with what Francis de Sales calls devotion.  The Pope tells us that devotion from a Salesian perspective is something very real and practical, “…a style of life, a way of living immersed in our concrete daily existence” that “embraces and discovers meaning in the little things.”  

Why do the little things matter?  Sometimes we might be tempted to say that even if they did in the past, the world is too askew now for any change to come from them.  We are tempted to give up, to think that our little actions in no way matter.

Pope Francis reminds us why they do.  He does it by highlighting how much the world changed in the time of Saint Francis de Sales.  As a young man, de Sales went to Paris and found a place and a people devastated by the Wars of Religion.  When he returned many years later, he found as the Pope calls it “[a] whole world athirst for God.”  “…[H]e sensed an authentic ‘epochal shift’ that demanded a response.”  What is fascinating is that the dear saint had an epochal shift himself, from interior spiritual torment in his youth to interior peace.  He encountered Jesus Christ which led him to proclaim in the Treatise that “Nothing sways the heart as much as love.”

Thus, why Francis de Sales can speak to us…He does so with authenticity.  He found his peace through what Pope Francis calls a “steady cultivation of lived experience.”  He did this in the same way the saint encourages us to do even now, to cultivate an interior life, an interior peace that “does not separate us from the world but teaches us how to live in it and appreciate it.”  

As Francis de Sales came to know and love God in a powerful way, he surrendered to the Lord.  He spread his wings, and the wind of God sent him soaring.  That love, that peace that he sought so desperately as a young man, he found in his daily encounters with the Lord, in quiet prayer, in little actions, in friendship and in charity.  Pope Francis emphasizes a fundamental Salesian teaching: devotion and charity cannot be separated.  Francis de Sales showed how making loving God his way of life led to his love of others.  “Today he bids us set aside undue concern for ourselves, for our structures and what society thinks about us, and consider instead the real spiritual needs and expectations of our people.”

If we embrace and discover meaning in the little things, we will realize how they make a major difference.  Our dear saint learned that in his own life.  He spread his wings with a confident trust and God lifted him to soar.  We can do the same and the amazing thing, the almost unbelievable thing, is that the accumulation of little acts of devotion and charity transform the world.  We have spent our lives seeking to pass that simple message on to you.  Now, we are hoping that through the authenticity of your own life, you might continue to pass this on as well.  Just remember, though, it will come in the way you authentically witness, how in the simple, daily ways you show the epochal shift, how the soaring comes in spreading your wings every day and allowing God’s wind to take you where you need to be and to the people you are called to encounter.

Live Jesus! Virginia 2023

Morning of Lenten Reflection & Renewal through the lens of Salesian Spirituality

Live Jesus! 2023 is a half-day Lenten morning sponsored by the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales. The reflection, fellowship, and prayer are based upon the humble and gentle spirituality of Saints Francis de Sales and Jane de Chantal.

Artwork by Brother Mickey McGrath, OSFS


"Be At Peace," is this year's theme. Attendees are invited to reflect on the many paths to peace.

Saint Francis de Sales tells us, “Inside each of us is a beautiful garden. We need to cultivate and prune it in order to give glory to God and be of service to others. Let us daily do this in peace, and thus experience the peace that only God can give.” Don't miss this opportunity to gather in prayer and fellowship to reflect on the peace that only God can provide.

Why Should I Attend Live Jesus!?

Salesian  Spirituality helps believers develop a deeper relationship with God through Jesus by defining a lifestyle centered on the little virtues: gentleness,  humility,  patience,  gratitude,  perseverance, and simplicity.  This special event is an opportunity in Lent to retreat from our fast-paced world and turn to the quietness of our hearts.  

SATURDAY, MARCH 18, 2023

St. Paul VI Catholic High School, Chantilly, VA

8:00 AM Continental Breakfast

9:00 AM Welcome/Opening Prayer

9:15 AM Keynote Presentation

“Be At Peace” - Brother Mickey McGrath, OSFS

“Crooked Paths to Peace” - Sister Susan Louise Eder, OSFS

“Finding Peace Amidst Everyday Busyness” - Tom Opfer, Ph.D.

11:30 AM Celebration of the Holy Eucharist

Pope Publishes Apostolic Letter on Saint Francis de Sales

On December 28, the 400th Anniversary of the death of Saint Francis de Sales, Pope Francis issued his Apostolic Letter, Totum Amoris Est ("Everything Pertains To Love"), in which the Holy Father reminds us that the spirit of Charity cultivated by Saint Francis de Sales is now entrusted to us.

Pope Francis also invites us to spend Christmas with Saint Francis de Sales.
Read his remarks in his General Audience on December 28th, the 400th Anniversary of the death of Saint Francis de Sales.

 

Read Articles Celebrating the Pope’s Apostolic Letter, Totum Amoris Est (“Everything Pertains to Love” ). Click on the buttons below:

The Holy Family and My Family

Tomorrow, as our Christmas celebrations continue, the liturgy observes the Feast of the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary and Joseph.  This is a day to remember the special role the Holy Family had in God’s plan for salvation.  It is also a time to reflect on our own family life.  It’s a day on which we can think about how we can strengthen communication between all family members, how to heal family wounds and walk with one another in daily life.

In my office in Wilmington, I have pictures of my family.   I have my parents, sisters, nieces and nephews.   I also have an image of my religious family - St. Francis, St. Jane, Blessed Louis Brisson and our Oblate founders.  There is one picture of a nun who is not a member of the Salesian family or of the Visitation Order.   That photograph is of my great aunt, Sister Rosalette Szamburska, CSFN (a member of the Congregation of the Holy Family of Nazareth).   The Sisters of the Holy Family are called to extend the Kingdom of God’s love by imitating the spirit of Jesus, Mary and Joseph. They do this in many ways, but their primary mission is to care for families.  

The picture of Sr. Rosalette reminds me that I am part of many families.  I have my family of origin and my religious family.   Even though the Oblates have a unique charism, I realize that all religious families learn from one another.  St. Bernard of Clairvoux, a Cisterian monk, often said: “I admire all religious orders.  I belong to one of them by observance but to all of them by charity. We all need one another.  The spiritual good which I do not own and possess, I receive from the others.” The life and prayer of all religious communities lift up the entire church.

I have learned from the Sisters of the Holy Family since I was a child.  Sister Rosalette would visit my home when she was back in Philadelphia and she was a visible witness that women and men could dedicate their lives to serving God and the Church and still be a part of their original family. 

After high school, I attended Holy Family College, was taught by the sisters, and saw first-hand the value they placed on education, family and faith. Today I continue my relationship with many members of the CSFN community. They remind me that our common way of life is a way that we can connect with families and with one another.  

As we celebrate the Christmas season, a season of family and faith, let us take time to focus on our own vocation.   Christianity is all about connections and relationships. Saint Francis de Sales reminds us that we all have a vocation, we are all called to do God’s will and to put the Gospel into practice.  My hope is that we can see in our religious communities, our parishes and our families the ways we can do this each day. By living, loving and learning from one another, we can make Jesus present on the earth again. We can make the world holy.   We can make our family holy.

Christmas Season Across the Provinces

Rev. Joseph P. Jocco, OSFS, 1949-2022

Rev. Joseph P. Jocco, OSFS

Rev. Joseph P. Jocco, OSFS, in his 46th year of religious life as a professed member of the Wilmington-Philadelphia Province of the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales, died on December 24, 2022.

Father was born in Chicago in 1949, the son of Joseph P. Jocco, Sr. and Harriett L. (Collard) Paulinski. After graduating from Oaklawn High School in Oaklawn, Illinois in 1968, he entered the United States Navy and served as a Corpsman until 1973.  He then entered the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales and professed first vows on August 13, 1977.  He made perpetual profession on January 21, 1983 and was ordained a priest on June 9, 1984 by Bishop Louis A. DeSimone, DD at Our Lady of Ransom Church in Philadelphia. Father earned a Bachelor of Arts in History from Allentown College of Saint Francis de Sales (now De Sales University) and a Master of Arts in Education from Villanova University.

Over the years, he worked in a wide variety of ministries in Secondary Education, including Father Judge High School (Philadelphia, PA), Salesianum School (Wilmington, DE), Father Lopez High School (Daytona Beach, FL) and Bishop Verot High School (Fort Myers, FL).  Father Jocco was the Vocation Director for the Wilmington-Philadelphia Province and Superior of the community in Childs, MD as well as the Father Louis Brisson Community (Philadelphia, PA).  His experiences in parochial ministry included being Parochial Vicar at Our Mother of Consolation (Philadelphia, PA) and St. Ann (Naples, FL) and Pastor of Saint Francis de Sales Parish (Robesonia, PA).

Rev. Joseph P. Jocco, OSFS is preceded in death by his parents as well as his sister Linda O’Rourke and her husband Thomas “Mike” O’Rourke.  He is survived by brother David Paulinski and his wife JoAnne, sister Marcie Morin and her husband Richard, sister Harriet Merlin and her husband Matthew, brother Richard Paulinski and his wife Janice, sister Arlene Korbel and her husband Ronnie, and sister Virginia (Ginny) Korbel in addition to many nieces and nephews. 

The Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, January 3, 2023 beginning at 11:30AM at Our Lady of Light Chapel, 1120 Blue Ball Road, Childs, MD 21916. The Viewing will precede the Mass from 10:00AM to 11:15AM. Interment will take place at the Oblate Cemetery following the Mass.  Attendees must be fully vaccinated and boosted from COVID-19.  Social distancing and masks are required.

In memory of Father Jocco’s life and legacy, donations may be made to the Oblate Development Fund, P.O. Box 87, Childs, MD 21916-0087.

Father Joe Jocco, OSFS, third from the left, at a recent Mass celebrating Jubiliarians.

Rome Conference Celebrating the Salesian Jubilee

Salesian Pontifical University (SPU) in Rome.

To commemorate the 400th Anniversary of the death of Saint Francis de Sales, the Salesians of Don Bosco hosted the international conference “Saint Francis de Sales (1567-1622): Posterity – Spirituality – Pedagogy” at the Salesian Pontifical University (SPU) in Rome on November 18-20, 2022.  Organized by the Institute of Spiritual Theology of the Faculty of Theology at the SPU, this gathering included more than 150 in-person participants and numerous people who attended virtually.  As indicated by its title, the convention’s aim was to highlight both the spirituality of Saint Francis de Sales, as evidenced in his vision of the Church and his pedagogical action, and the posterity of the saint, embodied in the various congregations, associations and institutions founded under his patronage.  

Dr. Wendy Wright

Dr. Wendy Wright presenting virtually at the international conference.

With regard to “posterity,” 13 religious institutions under the patronage of Saint Francis de Sales (from among more than thirty such institutes) were invited to give a brief presentation on how the bishop-saint inspired their respective founders and continues to sustain current-day ministries.  Included among these groups, in addition to the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales, were the Visitation of Holy Mary, the Oblate Sisters of St. Francis de Sales, the Salesians of Don Bosco, the Daughters of St. Francis de Sales, and the Missionaries of St. Francis de Sales.  This was certainly a historic moment to have so many religious institutes who draw their charisms from the holy Bishop of Geneva gathered together in one place.  

At the request of the Superior General, Father Barry Strong, OSFS, Father Joe Chorpenning, OSFS, represented the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales and organized his talk around the components of the first article of the Oblate Constitutions which describes the origins and defining characteristics of the congregation.  In particular, he shared with the audience two signature themes for the Oblate Fathers and Brothers as articulated by our founder Blessed Louis Brisson and the “Good Mother” Mary de Sales Chappuis: re-imprinting the Gospel and the sacredness of work.  The various accounts given during this part of the symposium demonstrated many similarities of how the ministry and writings of Saint Francis de Sales motivated the foundation of so many new religious communities, especially during the nineteenth-century “Salesian Pentecost.” 

Salesian Exhibit Rome

Salesian Exhibit in the atrium of SPU.

The remainder of the conference included academic papers presented by scholars from around the world on a variety of topics and themes, such as Salesian pedagogy, the preaching of the Savoyard saint, Mariology, and an examination of the bishop’s correspondence with his friend Antoine Favre.  Of note, presenting virtually across a nine-hour time difference, Dr. Wendy Wright spoke on “Francis de Sales and Women,” highlighting the historical context and unique aspects of the saint’s ministry to women.  Accompanying the international conference was an exhibition in the atrium of the SPU which featured rare Salesian books and artwork portraying Saint Francis de Sales, as well as posters displaying information about the founders/foundresses of the twelve religious institutions encountered during the program. 

The event concluded with Solemn Mass for the Feast of Christ the King celebrated by Father Ivo Coelho, SDB, General Councilor of the Salesians of Don Bosco, with Father Barry Strong, OSFS, as one of two principal concelebrants.  Following the liturgy, a festive luncheon with the rector of the SPU and other guests was attended by the Oblates at the symposium which, in addition to Father Joe and Father Barry, were Brother Dan Wisniewski, OSFS, and Father Michael Murray, OSFS. 

Information about the conference, including the schedule, a list of speakers, and English translations of the papers given, can be found at the link here.

Brother Dan Wisniewski, OSFS

Director of Oblate Education

Live Jesus! Delaware Event Coverage

On Saturday, December 3rd, the Oblates hosted the first Live Jesus! Delaware at St. Margaret of Scotland Church in Newark.

“All through love, nothing through fear,” was the theme for Live Jesus! Delaware. Attendees enjoyed reflections from Father Joe Newman, OSFS, and Mrs. Diane Casey, a lifelong Salesian educator who worked at Northeast Catholic High School in Philadelphia until it closed in 2010. We were also pleased to be joined by the Oblate Sisters of St. Francis de Sales from Mt. Aviat Academy.

It was beautiful to come together to share in the Salesian Spirit!  Thank you to all those who attended and volunteered!

Let us all Live Jesus!

Father Joe Newman, OSFS

Mrs. Diane Casey

Photos of Live Jesus! Delaware

Live Jesus! Delaware was held as a special Spirituality Day in honor of the Double Jubilee.

The New York Tenors are coming to Wilmington!

The New York Tenors, from left, Daniel Rodriguez, Andy Cooney and Christopher Macchio.

The Diocese of Wilmington will present “The Magic of Christmas” with the world-famous New York Tenors (Andy Cooney, Daniel Rodriguez, and Christopher Macchio).

The concert will be held at 4 pm, Sunday, December 11, at Salesianum School in Wilmington, DE.

Event proceeds will support the work of Catholic Charities.

After the show, there will be a meet-and-greet with Wilmington’s Bishop William E. Koenig and the New York Tenors.

Show tickets, sponsorship information and meet-and-greet tickets, are available by calling Andrea Rotsch at 302-573-3120 or emailing arotsch@cdow.org. Tickets may be purchased online at WilmingtonDiocese.simpletix.com.

For more information about the NY Tenors and Catholic Charities, read the article published by The Dialog.

Pope Francis to issue Apostolic Letter to mark the 400th anniversary of the death of Saint Francis de Sales

The Vatican recently announced that Pope Francis is preparing to release an apostolic letter on December 28th on Saint Francis de Sales to celebrate the 400th anniversary of his death.

The Pope has referenced Saint Francis de Sales and his teachings several times over the years. In his 2019 World Day of Peace address, he reminded all of the importance of showing, in Saint Francis’ words, “a bit of sweetness towards oneself in order to offer a bit of sweetness to others."  In 2018 during his January 24th general audience – which coincided with the Feast of Saint Francis de Sales – the Pope used Francis as "a model of meekness" for all and invited young married couples to listen to Francis and recognize in their “family life the primacy of God and His love.”

The apostolic letter also comes one hundred years after Pope Pius XI proclaimed Saint Francis de Sales as the "Patron Saint of Journalists, Editors and Writers." 

Read More:  Pope to publish apostolic letter on St. Francis de Sales By Loup Besmond de Senneville, La Croix 

Learn more about Saint Francis and the Double Jubilee Year!

The 29th Rev. William A. Guerin, OSFS Memorial Dinner Dance

The Memorial Dinner Dance Returns to Center City!

Saturday, January 14, 2023

Union League, Center City

140 S. Broad Street, Philadelphia, PA 19102

This annual celebration is a great opportunity to come together in community and celebrate the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales and the late Father Bill Guerin, OSFS, as well as so many Oblates who work to spread Salesian Spirituality.  The Heartbeats are back for a lively, fun celebration!

This special event supports our priests and brothers whose lives have positively impacted countless students, parishioners, families, and co-workers. All funds raised are dedicated to caring for our infirm and retired men living at the Oblate Retirement Residence at Annecy Hall, MD and Salesiansum Residence.

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Meet Father John Kasper, OSFS, Senior Religious and Member of the Toledo-Detroit Provincial Council

Father John Kasper, OSFS

Although a native of Toledo, Ohio, and a 1967 graduate of St. Francis de Sales School where the seeds of his Oblate vocation were first planted, John’s ministry in parochial leadership has spanned the country. After graduating from Niagara University and receiving a Master of Divinity degree at the Toronto School of Theology, he was ordained in his hometown of Toledo in 1979 and first served in parish and campus ministry in Buffalo, NY. In 1980, John and three other members of his province made a bold move to head West and serve in the Diocese of Denver. St. Michael the Archangel Parish in Aurora, Colorado provided a dynamic setting with a collegial staff in a rapidly-growing suburban area. In the span of six years, the parish grew from 200 families to 2200 families. After that intense time, John requested a study sabbatical and moved further West to California to pursue a Master of Theology degree in Worship & the Arts at the Jesuit School of Theology within the Graduate Theological Union of Berkeley.

“California Dreamin’” became more than a hit song by The Mamas & the Papas for John. The Bay Area in Northern California proved a rich setting for creative ministry and an opportunity to bring the spirit of Saint Francis de Sales to many people who were unfamiliar with the gentleness, optimism, and Christian humanism of the “gentleman Saint” who is a secondary patron of the Diocese of Oakland. Since 1987 John has served in three parishes there as Director of Music and Worship at St. Joseph Basilica in Alameda, as Parochial Vicar at Corpus Christi Parish in Piedmont, and, for the past twenty-five years, as Pastor of St. Perpetua Catholic Community in Lafayette. Over the years many Oblate have enjoyed John’s hospitality for a few days or a few weeks and the beauty and culture of the Bay Area, including a visit to the vineyards of Napa and Sonoma.

John resonates with the wide diversity of parish life. No two days are the same and he has enjoyed the various roles a parish priest is required to carry out. Besides the ministry of presiding and preaching at Eucharist and the Sacraments, John has been involved in major capital campaigns and building and renovation projects in each parish setting. Pastoral counseling, preparing young couples for marriage, adult and youth catechesis, serving on Diocesan commissions, liturgical presentations, and workshops throughout the Diocese – all these avenues of service have made parish ministry a challenging and rewarding experience for him. John especially strives to make the Sunday liturgical experience a time of grace and inspiration for each community through beautiful music, an attractive environment, and meaningful preaching that touches the real lives of parishioners. Before he left California this summer to move to the Ohio/Michigan area, John was recognized as “Pastor & Preacher” by Sunday to Sunday, an Emmy-winning video series that documents inspirational preaching with interviews, dialogue, and filming of homilists in action plying their trade. John was also honored for years of service as a Board Member of Hope Solutions, a faith-based organization whose goal is to provide permanent supportive housing and vital services to formerly homeless and vulnerable members of Contra Costa County.

Stained-glass windows at St. Perpetua Church

John is grateful for the many Oblates, parishioners, ministerial colleagues, and fellow clergy with whom he has had the privilege to serve. He said, “Enthusiasm is contagious, and I’ve been fortunate to work with so many creative and enthusiastic people over the years. One of the last collaborative projects I enjoyed was working with design consultants and a glass artist to create a set of large stained-glass windows for St. Perpetua Church based on Psalm 148 and the Canticle of Daniel – “Let All Creation Bless the Lord.” The windows echo the concern Pope Francis expressed in his 2015 encyclical Laudato Si’- “On Care for our Common Home.”

Learn more about Father John:

During the first year of the isolation of the Covid pandemic, Father John stayed in touch with members of the parish through a weekly online message of hope, consolation, and encouragement. Read here: “Lessons Learned” by Father John Kasper, OSFS.

New Roof for Annecy Hall

Our property in Childs, Maryland is a very special place to the Oblates.  Tucked between rolling farmlands and Interstate 95, this location has served many purposes.  Decades ago, Oblates first arrived at Childs as young, eager postulants.  Today, these same men call Childs home as they return to what is now our retirement facility.

As with any home as it ages, the buildings at Childs face similar challenges.  Since 2015, the Oblates have been engaged in a multi-phase project to replace the old, and in some places, leaky roofs on the buildings that house our infirm and retired men.  These Oblates have dedicated their lives to serving others and sharing the practical spirituality of our patron Saint Francis de Sales.  Even while facing the challenges that come with aging and illness, they continue to minister to others through their prayers for our supporters each day.

Presently, we are at Phase III of the project, and we need your help! In the previous Phases, the generosity of our supporters ensured the safe and comprehensive replacement of the roofing systems. Thank you to those who donated!

Phase III replaces the roof on Annecy Hall II, which houses the dining room, bedrooms, community room, ambulance entrance, hallways, and the breezeway that connects the Annecy buildings. The cost of Phase III is $131,000. We ask your support in providing a safe home for our brother Oblates by donating to Phase III of the roof replacement project.

Thank you for responding to this opportunity to do good work by helping us care for our older community members. We are appreciative and humbled by your support and thank you for your assistance in this final phase!

Father Thomas Tucker, OSFS

Father John Brennan, OSFS

"Great works do not always come our way but every moment presents us with opportunities to do little ones with excellence." - Saint Francis de Sales

Florida - Post Hurricane Update

Thank you for your prayers for our brothers and their parishioners in Florida. They have shown incredible fortitude, charity, and resolve in preparing for, riding out, and recovering from Hurricane Ian. Below you will find updates on our Oblates and Apostolates in Southwest Florida:

Jesus Obrero- Jesus the Worker (Fort Myers) is dealing with the flooding of their mission church, San Jose, which took in five feet of water. The destruction there was very serious. The mitigation process of removing all sheetrock, wood, floor tiles, carpets, cabinets, insulation, and maybe even the pews themselves is in process. After this laborious work is done, rebuilding can begin. It will be some time before Masses and activities can resume at that location. Thankfully, the main Church is fine and the Church Hall, which sustained some roof damage, has become a major distribution center for assistance. Many of Father Patrick O’Connor’s parishioners are suffering from severely damaged homes and/or no work as many are in the service industry. Literally, thousands of people from throughout the wider East Fort Myers community have arrived there for aid. Others have been extremely generous in providing assistance, including a radio station in Miami that sent five trucks full of supplies! Father Patrick is putting in long hours to both lead his parish and coordinate this assistance effort. The Florida Catholic covered the parish in this article. The massive effort there was also covered by a local television station out of Tampa. Their story can be accessed by clicking here.

If you would like to support Jesus the Worker, you can send a donation to 881 Nuna Ave.
Fort Myers, FL 33905.

Saint Ann (Naples) is seeing improvement in their situation. The parish took four to five feet of water into three of its twelve buildings, including two buildings at the rectory complex and the Parish Office/Chapel. Mitigation on these buildings is coming to an end and the process of reconstruction will soon begin. Because of where the parish is located and the large storm surge there, there are parishioners of Saint Ann who suffered significant losses. Saint Ann School reopened this week with a prayer service. While the school was closed, the students, faculty, staff, and their families kept busy by collecting many items to help others in need.

If you would like to support St. Ann Parish, you can send a donation to 475 9th Avenue, Naples, FL 34012.

Our Lady of Light (Estero) is doing well. There was damage typical in a storm like this (debris, roof damage) but the parish is getting back to normal. The Parish Center is being opened to those who are in need of shower facilities and donation items that have been collected there for distribution. The parish is surveying parishioners to see who is in need of assistance and is developing a response personalized to those needs. Father Hugh McGuigan, Pastor, is particularly concerned about year-round parishioners in mobile home communities who sustained significant damage.

If you would like to support Our Lady of Light, you can send a donation to the St. Vincent de Paul Society at Our Lady of Light, 19680 Cypress View Drive, Fort Myers, FL 33967.

Saint Cecilia (Fort Myers) is in great shape. The debris has been cleaned up and parish operations are back to normal. The only remaining reminder of Hurricane Ian on the campus is the bent cross on top of the Church. Some parishioners took a hit, but even with their own challenges, are asking how they might be of help to others.

Let us continue to keep the Southwest Florida Oblates, their parishioners, and colleagues in our prayers!

15th Principal of Father Judge High School

Last week, Father Jack Kolodziej, OSFS, Provincial, formally installed Mr. James Hozier as the 15th Principal of Father Judge High School.

During the installation, Father Jack presented Mr. Hozier with a statue of Saint Francis de Sales (as a reminder of the Salesian Virtues and a symbol of the call to "Live Jesus"), a copy of the first yearbook, the 1957 Crusader (as a sign of the thousands of lives formed at Judge), an image of the school shield (as a sign of the authority and responsibility given to him by the Archdiocese of Philadelphia and the Office of Catholic Education), and a copy of a Father Judge High School diploma (to represent his role as the educational leader of this institution and the mission of educating young men in the image of our patron, Saint Francis de Sales).

The prayers and support of the entire Oblate Congregation of priests, brothers, and seminarians are with Mr. Hozier, as he begins his new position as Principal.

Father Vince Smith, OSFS, Father Jack Kolodziej, OSFS, Brother Jim Williams, OSFS, Mr. Brian King (President of Father Judge), Mr. James Hozier, Father Joe Campellone, OSFS, and Brother Dan Wisniewski, OSFS.

Founders' Day! October 12th

Celebrating Blessed Louis Brisson

 
 

On October 12, the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales celebrate Founders’ Day, a day in which we remember the first Oblates beginning their novitiate. On this day in 1873, Bishop Ravinet of Troyes, France, presented the Oblate religious habit to Fathers Brisson, Gilbert, Rollin, Lambert, Lambey, and Perrot as they began their novitiate. This day is also the Feast of Father Brisson since his Beatification. Of course, the two go hand in hand!

When he was a diocesan priest, Father Brisson was assigned as chaplain to the monastery of the Visitation of Holy Mary in Troyes. Mother Marie de Sales Chappuis, Superior, was convinced that it was the will of God that their humble chaplain start a religious congregation of men to follow the spiritual legacy of Saint Francis de Sales. Brisson responded and founded the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales, a congregation dedicated to spreading the optimistic, inspired-common-sense wisdom of Saint Francis de Sales in a variety of ministries and apostolates in 1875. Father Brisson was beatified, at the authorization of Pope Benedict XVI, in 2012, in Troyes, France. The cause for his canonization remains active.

Oblates share their quotes from Blessed Louis Brisson, OSFS

  • Father Barry R. Strong, OSFS, Superior General

    • “The Congregation of the Oblates today is you. Within ten years, the Congregation will still be you... in a hundred years, in two hundred years, if it still exists, it will be you, yourselves. Understand that well. It is a heritage that you have received and that you will pass along to others: let it not deteriorate in your hands!” (First Instruction, General Retreat 1894)

      This is what Blessed Brisson told the early Oblates to make sure we would all understand our shared responsibility!

  • Father Paul Colloton, OSFS, Superior, Oblate Retirement Center

    • “If we should love those who love us, how much more we should love those who come from other countries.” (Chapter 1896: 57)

    • “Let us always be polite. Let us give everyone great respect because the proper respect for our neighbor is the basic rule of love.” (Chapter 1888: 38)

    • “Let us remain with one another bound with a bond of love. Be of one heart and soul.” (Chapter 1891: 4)

    • “Let us love one another! Let us be considerate toward another’s personality, toward the circumstances in which he lives, toward those who work with you whom you find repugnant. Put all that into the refining oven, into the chemical retort as Saint Francis de Sales stressed.” (Chapter 1897: 48-50)

  • Father Thomas Dailey, OSFS, John Cardinal Foley Chair of Homiletics & Social Communication, Saint Charles Borromeo Seminary

    • “‘Cheer up.' For us (Oblates), this expression should carry great weight because in the mind of Saint Francis de Sales it really meant something - it meant a lot. 'Cheer up.' After all, it's courage, the right kind of courage that will be your prop always and in every circumstance, and it's a real test of strength of mind. It takes a lot of courage to keep up a solid front, hard work, and good judgment on an even keel... Just as yesterday I told you that we must do our work passionately well, so today, I would tell you to 'cheer up' in every phase of your life. And this sort of courage will be proof that you are a real Oblate of St. Francis de Sales." (Retreat Instruction, August 19, 1890)

  • Father Mike Newman, OSFS, Assistant Provincial, Toledo-Detroit Province

    • "It is never what we do that obtains grace, it is the disposition with which we do it." (Chapter to the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales December 28, 1887)

      This saying is a reminder to me that nearly anything we do can be done for the glory of God, or done in the presence of God. Brisson reminds me that any action, when I do it for love of God, is a holy action; that is, an action 'that obtains grace.' When I have the disposition to remember God is with me at all times then all parts of our days can be holy and lived in the presence of God.

    • My second favorite quotes are on prayer. I like them because they are so practical!

      "We define prayer as a conversation of the soul with God, an intimate talk with God about our needs, about our personal affairs, and about the affairs of others when we have them in our care. This type of prayer unites us intimately with God." (Chapter to the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales May 16, 1894)

      "To pray or meditate is to treat of our own affairs with God; it is we talking simply and affectionately about them. And not only about spiritual affairs -about everything." (Chapter to the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales May 16, 1894)

  • Father Dave Whalen, OSFS, Priest-Assistant, St. Pius X Parish

    • “If God graces you from His great abundance, then profit from it.  But if you remain dry, dry as a piece of wood, then just say, ‘Lord, here is a piece of wood, please wrap your arms around it.’”  

 
 

"Give Me the Grace!" Podcast

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Every week, a fresh episode of "Give Me the Grace" is published by Salesianum School, in Wilmington, DE! Listen to Father Chris Beretta, OSFS, and Mr. Jonathan Dick, OSFS, as they discuss happenings at Sallies, sports, pop culture, and more with Sallies Student Council President and upperclassmen!

Above are behind the scenes of the recording of “Give Me the Grace!” Father Chris Beretta, OSFS, and Mr. Jonathan Dick, OSFS, working with Salesiunmin students.

Praying for Florida

As Hurricane Ian is about to make landfall in Florida, the Oblates are praying for all those who will be impacted by this terrible storm. We encourage you to join us in prayer and ask for prayers for the parishes we administer who are in the storm's path: Saint Cecilia in Fort Myers, Jesus the Worker (Jesus Obrero) in Fort Myers, Our Lady of Light in Estero and Saint Ann in Naples.

Please join us in this prayer provided by Father Patrick O'Connor, OSFS, Pastor of Jesus Obrero:

"God of the Universe, at the dawn of creation, your Spirit blew over the waters, making them a source of all holiness. You made the oceans and rivers and everything that dwells in them, and out of your word the wind and the waves were born.

The seasons follow your plan, and the tides rise and fall at your command. In the calm and the storm, you are with us.

On the Sea of Galilee, even as the disciples began to fear, Jesus showed Himself Lord over the waters by rebuking the storms, so that everyone would know that even the wind and the waves obey Him.

Creator God, we pray that You calm the wind and the waves of the approaching hurricane, and spare harm to those in its path. Help those on their way to safety. Open our hearts generously to all who need help in the coming days.

In all things and at all times, help us to remember that even when life seems dark and stormy, You are in the boat with us, guiding us to safety. Amen."

DeSales Networking Breakfast Featuring Ellen Kolodziej

October 21st ~ 7:37 AM

The Union League at Liberty Hill

Liberty Ballroom

Lafayette Hill, PA 1944 

Ellen Kolodziej, TV Reporter/Media Relations & Public Speaking Consultant

The DeSales Network is proud to welcome Ellen Kolodziej to their Networking Breakfast on October 21, 2022. The event will start at 7:37 am with continental breakfast and networking followed by a presentation by Ellen Kolodziej. You will have the opportunity to ask questions and learn from Ellen and each other.

Ellen Kolodziej is a TV Reporter/Media Relations and Public Speaking Consultant who has worked at 13 different TV and radio stations in her incredible career. You will recognize her face from FOX 29 and NBC10 and her voice from KYW1060 where she was recently News Anchor.

She is a dear friend to the Oblates as her little brother Father Jack Kolodziej, OSFS, serves as Provincial of the Wilmington-Philadelphia Province.

Ellen is happy to be back in Philadelphia on FOX29! She is passionate about all Philly sports and loved reporting for the “Charlie Manuel” TV show. Other fun shows she has worked on include "Phillies Postgame live with Mike Missanelli and John Clark,” "Inside Golf," and “Philly Pheud” with Missanelli.

In addition to her broadcast career, Ellen delivers media training and public speaking coaching for executives. She also taught Public Speaking at her alma mater, La Salle University for 13 years. Ellen is a Philadelphia native and a product of Nativity BVM School in Port Richmond and John W. Hallahan Catholic Girls’ High School. She received a Bachelor's Degree in Communications from La Salle and a Master's Degree in Journalism from Indiana University in Bloomington, Indiana. She calls Havertown home now and has two beautiful children - Krystyna, a senior at FIT (The Fashion Institute of Technology) in New York, and Jack, a sophomore at Arizona State University.

The Mission of the DeSales Network

To honor the memory of Fr. William Guerin, OSFS, the DeSales Network will offer engagement and social opportunities for spiritual growth for Gospel-minded people in the spirit of St. Francis de Sales to fuel the grace that, in the words of Fr. Guerin, “gets you to heaven."

For more info, email info@oblates.org