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“Blessed are they who hope in the Lord…."
In his Treatise on the Love of God, Francis de Sales wrote:
“Hope is simply looking towards – and striving for – our supreme good, who is God. We hope for such things as we expect to gain by another’s aid, whereas we aspire to such things as we strive after by our own resources and by ourselves. Just as men who would hope without aspiring would be rejected as cowardly and irresponsible, so too, those who aspire without hope would be considered rash, insolent and presumptuous.”From a Salesian perspective the virtue of hope must be used in tandem with the virtue of aspiration. Hoping without aspiring - that is, without doing our part to make God’s dreams come true - is nothing other than wishful thinking, or as Francis de Sales calls it, cowardice. On the other hand, aspiring without hoping - that is, believing that we can do this all by ourselves without God’s help - is arrogance.
Look at Lent as a kind of Christian parallel to making New Year’s resolutions, but instead of waking up one day a year with some strategies for becoming better versions of ourselves – that is, growing in holiness – Lent offers us forty days during which to do some serious soul searching and life changing. The virtue of hope is a critical companion for us during our Lenten journeys, precisely because it helps us to be clear about how much of our growth depends on us, and how much of our growth depends on God.
Blessed are they who hope in the Lord. Happy are those who remind themselves that God’s dreams for us are far too big to be accomplished all by ourselves. At the same time, blessed too, are those who aspire in the Lord, and happy are those who recognize – and do – their part in making God’s dreams for us a reality.
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“This is the fasting that I wish: releasing those bound unjustly, untying the thongs of the yoke; Setting free the oppressed, breaking every yoke; Sharing your bread with the hungry, sheltering the oppressed and the homeless; Clothing the naked when you see them, and not turning your back on your own…”
The prophecy of Isaiah in today’s first reading could not be clearer - effective fasting needs to have tangible results. While doing without something in private may help us to make personal advances in the spiritual life, God prefers fasting that enables us to help others to advance in the spiritual life. God would much rather have us engaged in the fasting that enables us to “do”, rather than engaging in the fasting that simply stops at “doing without”.
It’s no accident that Jesus’ most scathing criticism of the Pharisees, Sadducees and scribes focused on how their ways of fasting were of little – or no – help to others. In fact, the devotional practices of Pharisees, Sadducees and scribes actually laid heavy burdens on other people, burdens which these religious leaders were totally unwilling to help other people to carry. How can a person possibly hope to advance in his/her relationship with God while turning a blind eye to the plights of others – to say nothing of making others’ plights even worse?
Daniel adds: “Fast so as to make your voice heard on high.” How can our fasting make our voices heard on high? It can when our ways of fasting – our ways of doing– enable us to feed, nourish, free and empower others around us here below.
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“If you remove from your midst oppression, false accusation and malicious speech then light shall rise for you in the darkness, and the gloom shall become for you like midday…”
In his Introduction to the Devout Life, Francis de Sales wrote:
“‘If a man does not offend in word, he is a perfect man,’ says St. James. Be careful never to let an indecent word leave your lips, for even if you do not speak with an evil intention those who hear it may take it in a different way. An evil word falling into a weak heart grows and spreads like a drop of oil on a piece of linen cloth. Sometimes it seizes the heart in such a way as to fill it with a thousand unclean thoughts and temptations. Just as bodily poison enters through the mouth, so what poisons the heart gets in through the ear and the tongue that utters it is a murderer…No man can tell me that he speaks without thinking…” (Part III, Chapter 27, pp. 194-195)
We are responsible for what comes out of our mouths. Words are not just words. They are powerful. They have an impact on other people. St. James states: “From the same mouth come blessing and cursing.”
Would you like to be light in other peoples’ darkness? Would you like to be a remedy to others’ sadness and gloom? A good place to start is to simply – and consistently – watch the words that come out of your mouth.
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“Jesus was led by the Spirit into the desert where he was tempted by the devil.”
While Jesus was preparing to begin his public ministry – to proclaim the Good News of the Kingdom of God – to be the kind of Messiah envisioned by His Father – to open up his mind and heart to the power and promise of the Holy Spirit – he was tempted.
Tempted to turn stone into bread and to use his saving power for his own convenience. Tempted to settle for earthly kingdoms and to be satisfied with passing glory and majesty. Tempted to throw himself from the temple and presumably, to convince people of his identity and authority through a single, dramatic, headline-grabbing event.
Fundamentally, Jesus was tempted to be someone other than who God wanted him to be. Jesus was tempted to be a different kind of savior. Jesus was tempted to believe that there was an easier way to redeem, to save and to sanctify. Jesus was tempted to believe that there was a short cut to salvation, a “one-size-fits-all” road to redemption.
We can relate to this temptation. How often do we tell ourselves that we would be happier, healthier and holier if we were someone else? How often do we say that there must be another way (read, an easier way, a less inconvenient way) to be a good wife, a good husband, a good son or daughter, a good sister or brother, a good friend or neighbor? The tragedy is that if we spend our lives believing that we’d be better off if we were someone or somewhere else, we would never live the one life – the only life – that God gives us.
Francis de Sales wrote:
“Don’t sow your desires in some else’s garden; just cultivate your own as best you can. Don’t long to be someone other than what you are; rather, desire to thoroughly be who you are. Direct your thoughts to being very good at that and to bear the crosses, little or great, that you find there. Believe me, this is the most important point– and least understood – in the spiritual life.” (Letters of Spiritual Direction, p. 112)
Jesus was tempted to be someone other than the one whom the Father wanted him to be. Jesus was tempted to forsake the authentic pathway of love for the hollow, devilish promise of a shortcut: Jesus was tempted to take the (seemingly) easy way out. However, his belief in God’s plan for him allowed Jesus to disavow the empty promise of a quick fix for the path that leads to true happiness, health and holiness. To use Matthew Kelly’s image, Jesus was tempted to settle for something less than “being the best version of himself”.
As we journey through this season of Lent, let us ask for the courage we need to recognize the voice of the tempter within us. Let us ask for the insight to see the ways in which we are tempted to spend our lives wishing we were someone else. Let us ask for the grace and the strength to follow the example of Christ, the one who shows us that love is not about quick fixes or short cuts, but that love is about being willing to go the distance…faithfully, one day, one person at a time.
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“You shall not…You shall.”
Today’s readings remind us that being children of God comes with its share of “do’s” and “don’ts”.
The “don’ts” include: You shall not steal. You shall not lie or speak falsely. You shall not defraud or rob. You shall not withhold. You shall not curse. You shall not spread slander. You shall not hate. The “do’s” include: You shall feed the hungry. You shall satisfy the thirsty. You shall clothe the naked. You shall welcome the stranger. You shall care for the sick. You shall visit the imprisoned.
Many people experience the commandment to follow both the letter and the spirit of God’s Law to be burdensome. In today’s Gospel, Jesus insists that living by God’s Law is not only not burdensome, but in fact is the way to Beatitude – it is the way of experiencing blessing by being blessing in the lives of others.
Be it through “do’s” or “don’ts”, how might God be asking you to be a source of divine Beatitude – that is, a blessing – in the lives of others today?
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“Do not babble like the pagans…”
In today’s Gospel Jesus gives instruction on the proper way to pray. He cautions us to “not babble like the pagans”, who think that they will be heard because of their many words.
In a sermon given on April 5, 1615, Francis de Sales made the following observation regarding prayer in general, and vocal prayer in particular:
“To mutter something with the lips is not praying if one’s heart is not joined to it. To speak it is necessary first to have conceived interiorly what we wish to say. There is first the interior word, and then the spoken word, which causes what the interior has first pronounced to be understood. Prayer is nothing other than speaking to God. Now it is certain that to speak to God without being attentive to Him and to what we say to Him is something that is most displeasing to Him…God tests more the heart of the one who prays rather than the words pronounced by one who prays.” (Fiorelli, OSFS, Sermons on Prayer, p. 18)
Authentic prayer is not a matter of words. Authentic prayer is a matter of the heart, a heart whose stirrings must ultimately be displayed in actions.
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“When God saw how they turned from their evil way, He repented of the evil that he had threatened to do to them…”
Today’s reading from the Book of Jonah illustrates two things about God. First, God is just. God expects us to turn away from evil. God expects us to turn toward the good. Our failure to do so can result in clear and unambiguous consequences. Second, God’s justice toward us is outdone only by His mercy toward us. There appears to be no doubt that God is always prepared to give us the benefit of the doubt even if we are making only a modicum of progress in the love of God and neighbor.
Indeed, God is love, a love that tempers – that is, strengthens – justice with mercy.
It’s always tempting to get tough on other people who don’t measure up to our expectations. Ironically enough, this seems especially true in our relations with those we love. Perhaps their lack of progress isn’t because we aren’t being tough enough; perhaps it’s because we aren’t being merciful enough.
