Michael Swiger, parishioner at St. John Neumann Parish, Reston, VA
“Let us think only of living today well” - Saint Francis de Sales
My faith journey took a dramatic change in my life some 30 years ago when I became Catholic. It was my first experience with the Oblates of St. Francis de Sales and the opportunity to learn through and experience not just the wisdom but the “how to” for living a more meaningful Christian life through the writings of Saint Francis de Sales.
I was amazed at how Saint Francis’ simple truths and the shared wisdom of living in the present moment became my guidepost to my faith's journey. I was even more astonished as to how practical the teachings of over 400 years ago are as relevant today as they were then.
Like many of us, I struggle at times, but I make a conscious effort at improving each day! As my father told me long ago, “Michael, you are a work in progress!” So true but I have come to realize that I should learn from my past, not worry about tomorrow, and focus on being the best person I can be each day of my life. It sounds simple but it’s a challenge.
I am not perfect, by any stretch of my imagination but then again, who of us is? My goal is to continue living each day to the best of my ability by beginning each day with a prayer of thanksgiving for my life and the opportunity I have been given for that day, be true to myself, and be the best person I can be. If I stumble, have the courage to forgive myself, learn from it, and move forward. At the end of the day, I thank the Lord for the many blessings, friendships, and love I receive every day of my life.
So, my work in progress continues. I know that as I continue to "be who I am and be that well" each and every day, I truly believe I will be closer to living my life as the Lord has asked.