St. Francis de Sales

Celebrate Saint Francis de Sales

Join us in celebrating our patron, St. Francis de Sales!

Feast Day: January 24

St. Francis de Sales was a bishop who believed that all people were called to a life of holiness, regardless of their state in life. Here, he foreshadowed the vision of the Second Vatican Council. From his writings, preaching, and ministry grew what is known as “Salesian Spirituality.” He is a doctor of the church and best known for his practical, down-to-earth approach to living the Gospel.

Salesian Spirituality is a way of living the Gospel as learned, lived, and shared by St. Francis de Sales (1567 – 1622) and St. Jane de Chantal (1572 – 1641). Its first disciples were the Sisters of the Visitation of Holy Mary, a community of contemplative women established by these two saints in 1610. Their vision continues today, lived by people of all walks, states, and stages of life. Learn more about Salesian Spirituality and Oblate vocations below.


My Mother

My Mother

Last week, my family, many friends, and brother Oblates came together in St. Bernard’s Church in Youngstown, NY, to celebrate and bid farewell to my mother. During these times, I reflect on St. Francis's teachings as they capture the beauty death provides, despite the pain and loss accompanying it...Read More

Carrying the Charism

Carrying the Charism

The Holy Spirit continues to breathe new life into a new expression of, as Saint Jane wrote, a “tiny kingdom of charity." How can the lay continue to “carry the charism” - a living gift of the Holy Spirit?...

St. Charles, St. Francis and the Call to Holiness

Today is the feast of St. Charles Borromeo. Shane Flanagan, a seminarian studying for the Archdiocese of Philadelphia at St. Charles Borromeo Seminary, reflects on the similarities between St. Charles and St. Francis de Sales. Shane is a 2014 graduate of Father Judge High School in Philadelphia. Father Judge has been a Salesian school since it was founded by the Oblates in 1954. Shane will be ordained a deacon in the spring of 2022.

Saint Therese of Lisieux once said, “you cannot be half of a saint, you must be a full saint or no saint at all.”  During a dark moment in the Church’s history two men rose up and embodied what it means to be a “full saint.”  Saints Charles Borromeo and Francis de Sales were leading figures in the Church during the Counter-Reformation.  Both men called for the sanctity of everyday life, through the faithful living out of one’s vocation.  Both men preached firstly by the way they lived and then by their words. They were examples to the people they were called to lead, showing them the way to salvation, by providing direction on how to live well.  

St. Charles and St. Francis shared strikingly similar paths in life.  Both men were born into noble families, educated at the finest schools, overcame family objections to their ordinations, and received their offices within the Church initially because of family connections.  God used the culture and atmosphere of the 16th Century to elevate these humble and holy men to the office of bishop.  While St. Francis called the lay-faithful to holiness, St. Charles dedicated himself to correcting the abuses found within the clergy of his time.  

As Bishop of Milan, St. Charles became an advocate for the more structured education and formation of priests, a precursor to the modern-day seminary.  He stressed the importance of being with the people entrusted to his care, choosing to remain in the city of Milan during the plague while most noble members of society fled. His desire to stay was fueled by the people’s need for the sacraments, especially in their final hours.  St. Charles led with humility and called others to do the same. The challenge to be a humble steward was met with much resistance and even resulted in an assassination attempt on his life. Despite all of this resistance, St. Charles remained on course.

Personally, God has blessed me with the opportunity to learn under the patronage of both men.  As a student at Father Judge High School, I was introduced to St. Francis de Sales and Salesian spirituality.  The motto “be who you are and be that well '' was not just a sign on the wall but a challenge to know myself through the eyes of God, so I could become the best version of myself.  The gentle challenge of St. Francis created an atmosphere in my heart, which created a space in which the quiet call of God could not only be heard but also acted on.  Upon entering St. Charles Seminary, I was presented with the priestly example of how one “loves without measure,” through my reading about the life of St. Charles.  The motto of St. Charles was to do all things with humility.  The Salesian basis of introspection provided the foundation needed to humbly accept my shortcomings and strive to “live Jesus” in all aspects of my life.  Self-knowledge and love underline the teaching of St. Charles and St. Francis, and both aspects are needed in our current culture. Through the intercession of Sts. Charles and Francis, I strive to be a light like them and work to bring Christ into every action of my day.  May we all strive to “be who we are'' and be “full saints” today, like St. Charles and St. Francis.  

Shane Flanagan

Father Judge High School, Class of 2010

Seminarian for the Archdiocese of Philadelphia

Saint Charles Borromeo Seminary, Wynnewood, PA

Taking Francis With Me

St. Francis of Assisi with animals

St. Francis Assisi, whose feast day is celebrated this Monday, is perhaps one of the best known and most beloved Catholic saints.  He’s one of my favorites, and not just because October 4th is my birthday. 

Growing up in a Catholic home, I was regularly reminded of my connection to Francis. As I came to know him better, he became my patron saint. My relationship with Francis started with colorful children’s books featuring him surrounded by animals, a worn statue of him in my room, and stories of “Brother Sun and Sister Moon.”

Of all the saints I met in a decade of parochial school, Francis of Assisi seemed by far, the coolest. As a young man, Francis was considered fun and popular; he was the life of the party with an eye for great adventure.  When the time came, he donned a knight’s armor and fought in a battle, honorably defending his hometown.  Very cool.

Then, like so many of us, his plans took a turn. A battle injury, imprisonment, and illness led to Francis’ transformation. There are many stories of the beloved saint - the voice telling him to “rebuild my church,” the stigmata he experienced at the end of his life, and his connections to animals. 

Path in the woods during fall
Path in the woods

For me, Francis’ convalescence is the greatest of his stories. For it was there, deep in the serene fields of Assisi, where he truly encountered God, where he learned of beauty found in simple things.  This is where Francis keenly observed God’s creation and learned its critical lessons of peace and humility.  

I take Francis with me on my early morning hikes through the Wissahickon Valley in Philadelphia’s Fairmount Park.  When the divisions in my community overwhelm me or the arguments in my household stress me, I voyage deep into this quiet, timeless, and ever-changing forest. On every trip, the moment I behold the rocky, wooded path, I feel God’s peace envelop me. Later, when I exit the forest’s edge, I may not hear the voice as Francis did, but I do feel a powerful invitation to take the forest’s peace into my day.  

Being a peacemaker is no easy feat and acting in a peaceful, loving manner can be hard for all of us.  For me, I struggle with being a peacemaker when dealing with my teenage sons, colleagues with different agendas, and neighbors who easily offend.  Those are the times when I think of the forest and hear Francis’ prayer, recalling the tune, Make Me A Channel of Your Peace.” 

The challenge that Francis presents us in that popular prayer is as relevant today as when he rebuilt the church San Damiano.  His words remind us that in the simple ways we bring God’s peace to our world, we, too are rebuilding His Church. 

In de Sales,

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Paula M. Riley

Communications Consultant